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A strange equation is often seen in Indian families. Generally, children have a very deep and emotional bond with their mother, where they say whatever is on their heart without any hesitation. On the contrary, there remains an unspoken ’emotional distance’ with the father. Father supports us by becoming a shield in every difficult situation, but children always feel hesitant in sitting and talking with him. Due to less interaction with father, this bond starts looking a little weak with time. But believe me, by changing some small habits of your daily life, you can end this distance with your father forever and make the relationship as strong as steel.
1. Express love and respect openly, leave hesitation
The whole world knows that fathers love their children immensely, but their nature is such that they are never able to share their emotions openly. A father always keeps his feelings hidden so that he can keep the family strong. In such a situation, you will have to take the initiative. Sit near dad, communicate with him and express your respect and love towards him openly. When you start talking openly, the ice built up in the relationship over the years will melt and the bitterness or distance that has arisen will go away forever.
2. Have lunch or dinner together at least once a day
In today’s fast-paced and extremely busy lifestyle, it has become difficult for people to find time for their family. Often children are busy in their rooms or on the phone and father is busy in his work. Change this habit. Have a meal with your father at least once in 24 hours (be it lunch or dinner). Eating together at the dining table not only provides an opportunity for conversation, but sharing the day’s conversations and joys and sorrows strengthens family relationships.
3. Take part in dad’s favorite activities and hobbies
The best way to spend quality time with your father is to show interest in his favorite things. If your father likes to read newspapers or good books in the morning and evening, then discuss that topic with him. If they like listening to old music, gardening, or sometimes cooking, go ahead and help them with these activities. When you become a part of their world, the joy on their faces will be worth seeing and your bond will become very special.
4. Talk about dad’s struggle and his life
There is a person hidden within every father, who has a wealth of experiences. Sometimes in your free time, sit with them and ask them about their childhood, school and college days. Hear from him what challenges he faced when he started his first job and how he struggled in his young age. When you honor their life experiences and lessons, they will feel that their children truly understand them. This one habit will take the relationship between you and Papa to a new and friendly level.
