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News India Live, Digital Desk: Relationship Advice: The relationship between husband and wife is woven with threads of love, wrangling and faith. There are quarrels in this beautiful journey, which sometimes make the relationship stronger, and sometimes make it hollow. But the real challenge comes when the quarrel calms down and some words that have come out in anger, add poison in the partner’s heart. Often angry women say some such things, which they regret later, but by then it is late. Today we are telling you those 4 things, which in anger, a wife should not even forget to forget her husband, otherwise the relationship increases so much that love dies.
1. “You are of no use, look to Sharma ji… ”(Compare to others):
This is the poison that hurts any man’s masculine ego inside. No matter how weak or upset it is, but to compare it with others, it is like degrading it. If the wife says, “I wish you were like Sharma ji”, “Look how successful my brother is”, then it completely breaks the husband’s confidence. He feels that his wife is not happy with him, and this thing gradually removes her from the relationship. It has a very deep negative effect on love.
2. “Your habit is like this, last time you also…” (digging old things):
It is like sprinkling salt on the burn! If the quarrel is happening on something and if you bring an incident two years old, then the matter deteriorates rather than improving. Any quarrel is resolved only when it is talked about on that one issue and it is ended there. If you open the box of old things in every battle, then the husband will feel that any of his mistakes are forgiven and everything is kept in account. This makes the partner feel very suffocated and he starts clipping from interacting with you.
3. “I am not staying with you, I am going…” (Threatened to eliminate the relationship):
This is the most dangerous thing for any relationship! Repeatedly threatened that “I will leave you”, “I want a divorce” or “This relationship is over”, makes your partner feel insecure. This makes him feel that your relationship is not confirmed and can end anytime. Such words end trust in their love. He may celebrate this once or twice, but if it becomes your habit, then gradually their respect will end for you and the relationship will weaken. This is not just an empty threat, but a direct attack on the roots of love and trust.
4. “Your family is like this/Your mother must have taught this…” (raise a finger on the family):
This is the red line that should not be crossed in any relationship! The biggest crime is to comment or abuse or abuse them or abuse them. Every person is deeply connected to his family, and when his wife says something bad for his parents, he feels that he has been directly attacked. This increases the anger so much that it becomes difficult to improve the relationship. Later you may regret it, but this thing puts such a sour in the relationship that it becomes impossible to remove. The honor of the family is very sacred for every husband.
