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‘One of the most gracious, intelligent and perfect couples of Bollywood, Ashutosh Rana and Renuka Shahane have completed 25 years of marriage. On the special occasion of their Silver Jubilee, this lovely couple refreshed their wedding memories by garlanding each other again. Videos and pictures of this celebration are going viral on social media, and fans are showering a lot of love on this couple.
Even though today people call them a ‘perfect couple’, there was a time when Ashutosh Rana himself felt that his and Renuka’s marriage would not last even for two days. Let us know about their very interesting and out-of-the-box love story.
Ashutosh Rana’s emotional post on completion of 25 years: ‘Learn to bet…’
On the 25th wedding anniversary, Ashutosh Rana shared a very beautiful and philosophical post on social media. they wrote:
“Time passes so quickly with joy that we don’t realize it has passed. Today, 25 years of marriage between me and my dear Renuka ji have been completed. On the basis of my experience of last 25 years with respected Renuka ji, I say that marriage does not work to change each other’s personality but to enhance and refine each other’s personality.”
Giving the basic mantra of a happy married life, he further wrote that there is not only love between husband and wife, but also mutual respect is equally necessary. Marriage is such a divine event that it explains – ‘Half the world is yours and half the world is yours. If you learn to bet, the whole world is yours. Just as the confluence of two rivers is a holy pilgrimage, similarly Grihasthashram is also a pilgrimage where two different consciousnesses become one with fire as their witness.
Renuka’s second marriage: When Ashutosh felt that ‘ideas were not matching’
The love story of Renuka Shahane and Ashutosh Rana was not like that of ordinary couples. Renuka Shahane’s first marriage was unsuccessful, due to which she was very scared of remarriage. But Ashutosh’s gentle and safe behavior gradually removed this fear from his mind.
In an interview, Ashutosh Rana had revealed that when both of them were dating each other, his father advised him to talk about marriage with Renuka. On this Ashutosh told his father:
“Our views don’t match much. I’m afraid our marriage might not even last two days.”
Initially, both of them did not want to get married, they just wanted to remain committed to each other as friends. They were afraid that their relationship would change after the social pressure of marriage, but with time nothing like this happened and their love continued to deepen.
Two most interesting and unique reasons for marriage
There are some interesting stories behind this marriage which are not commonly heard:
1. Gurudev’s wish and mother’s concern
Ashutosh Rana’s most revered Gurudev Bhagwan Daddaji had already chosen Renuka as the daughter-in-law of his house. When Ashutosh went to Renuka’s house to ask for her hand, Renuka’s mother was surprised to know this. He asked, “Are you getting married just because Guruji said so?” Apart from this, Renuka’s mother was also worried about the fact that Ashutosh’s family was very big, in which 12 people lived together, whereas Renuka was from a small and isolated environment.
2. Renuka’s ‘funny greed’
Renuka Shahane herself once told that she had a very natural ‘greed’ behind marrying Ashutosh. Renuka wanted a stable family and wanted to become a mother. It was clearly visible to him that Ashutosh Rana is a very ‘family oriented’ person. Renuka felt that there could be no better father than Ashutosh for her future children.
3 big life lessons learned from the relationship between Ashutosh and Renuka
1.Don’t change personality, enhance it:Lesson 1.
The meaning of marriage is not to mold the partner into our own colors, but to help him move forward while respecting his original personality.
2.Mutual respect is greater than love:Lesson 2.
Romance and attraction may change over time, but mutual respect and respect is what keeps a relationship alive for 25 years or more.
3. Overcoming fear with maturity:Lesson 3.
Don’t let the fear of a bad experience from the past (like a failed marriage) dominate the present. When the right life partner comes, all the fears automatically go away.
