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Relationship Tips: There was a time when girls were forced to go to their in-laws' house, whether they liked it or not. But today there are many reasons due to which girls today think about separating from their husbands. Then usually the son-in-law is considered guilty. But there are many things that the mother-in-law should also keep in mind.
Compared to others
Every groom expects love and respect in his in-laws. If his mother-in-law praises another son-in-law, then in such a situation a kind of insecurity and disappointment can arise in the mind of the son-in-law. And she can think about separating from her husband. To avoid such a situation, the mother-in-law should understand that everyone is different. And everyone's ambitions are also different.
Hiding household matters from the groom
After marriage, when the groom comes to his in-laws' house, he considers it his own home. But it often happens that he feels like an unknown person there. This includes not sharing household matters with the daughter-in-law, hiding important household matters, not asking about important household decisions, etc. Due to this kind of behavior, the daughter-in-law does not get any place in the house and she can think about separating from her husband. Therefore, the mother-in-law should consider the new daughter-in-law as a member of her family and ask her opinion on everything.
Rock-talk on costumes
In-laws have a habit of criticizing the groom's clothes. Sometimes it happens that the mother-in-law starts taunting an outsider. Then in such a situation a modern girl does not like to live together and thinks of living separately. Then the mother-in-law should also change with time and adopt a new thinking.
Lack of space for privacy
Every person always has to spend some time alone in the day. Where he gets privacy for himself. But in Indian homes where the whole family lives together, there is often no privacy. Then the groom feels that his work is being monitored. She has become a prisoner. If she does not get freedom, the daughter-in-law can consider separating from her husband. In such a situation, everyone should understand that now everyone should be given privacy. Even if the daughter-in-law is working, she needs some personal time. Where she can get relief from the burden of work.
Not getting time with husband
After marriage, every husband and wife try to strengthen their relationship. But often due to family responsibilities, they forget to take out time for each other. Then, if she does not get time with her husband, she may think of separating from her mother-in-law. Then the mother-in-law should insist that both of them be sent for an outing or try to give them some privacy when on vacation.