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relations: After reaching the marriageable age, family members start getting together and looking for places. Those who do love marriages are not under the pressure of these things. But, accepting a marriage proposal, getting married to a place or person suggested by the would-be bride or an acquaintance becomes very difficult and equally challenging. (Think about these 5 things before getting into an arranged marriage, otherwise you are bound to regret it)
Arranged Marriage There are often some twists in the marriage system when we get married, but was this decision right? This is a very serious question. So it is always a good option to keep some things in mind and think about them well before getting into an arranged marriage.
Before you decide on the person you consider a 'perfect match', it is important to know what you want in a relationship. If you don't know this, you may get confused with an arranged marriage. To avoid this confusion, keep some things in mind.
1. Set a timeline
Setting a timeline for yourself during an arranged marriage gives you clarity on what to do next. If you have chosen your partner from a matrimonial site or through relatives, you need to calculate how much time you want to spend with that person. At such times you are not in a hurry and you get enough time to spend with that person before marriage. If possible, spend time with each other during this time, share likes-dislikes, habits and other important things with each other. This first step is very important for an arranged marriage.
2. Spend TimeWith Her Or His Family
Spend some quality time with the family of the person you are going to marry. This way the person gets to know about the traditions, customs of his house. By spending time with the family, you get an idea of their likings. Moreover, it is not difficult for you to understand the members of that family.
3. Financial compatibility
It is very important that both earn after marriage. If both of you work, or you have two sources of income, then no one will be burdened. Whether you have an arranged marriage or a love marriage, financial independence is very important. If you will be dependent on the other person then you will suffer in the future. So, before fixing the marriage, discuss the financial calculations clearly without any hesitation.
4. Don't keep anything in your mind… (Put all your cards on the table)
When you are in a relationship, you know everything about your lover but when you have an arranged marriage, you know nothing about that person. Then at such a time without thinking tell that person how you feel about that person in your life, what you expect so that you get good clarity before tying the knot of marriage.
5. Talk openly about your past
We often hide our past from the other person during marriage. But after some time that past comes out for some reason, which leads to new disputes and misunderstandings. In such a situation, as far as possible or necessary, share some old experiences with your future partner. So that it becomes easier to guess some things. This helps in strengthening your relationship.
Because of these 5 things, there won't be much problems in an arranged marriage. Considering these 5 things before agreeing to marriage gives you important clarity.