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Only if love and marriage are good, the journey of life can go smoothly. A smooth married life means mutual love, respect, understanding, supporting each other and everything. Only then can that relationship take the form of a happy relationship.
But in recent times we are hearing news of divorces. Many couples find that even if they fall in love and get married, living together is a challenge. Why is it so..? This question can be answered in many ways as to what flaws of the spouses pull the marriage bond in the wrong direction.
It is natural to have disagreements on some issue in marriage. But this should be resolved by both the husband and wife together. Keep in mind that both of you are on the same team in your fight. But today's young couples who falter over such small issues are climbing the stairs of the court for divorce even when the marriage is still going on.
Do not compare your spouse with others:
Every person has a different personality. First of all, you should understand that there is no other person like you in this world. Do not compare that they are good and you are not like them. It is also not good to feel sad that someone does not have money and we do not have it. It is not good to pretend that you are not like my mother. The person who has more money than your spouse may have poor health. You may have never seen what your mother looked like at your partner's age. So you have to keep in mind that comparison makes relationships difficult.
Falling asleep without resolving a fight:
Fights, resentment and hostility are common in marriage. But your goal should be to fix it, not complicate it further. Many people fight again and again. They stop talking for months. If they see one's face, they start living as if the other is not there. This certainly cannot save a marriage.
Not making your partner a priority
After deciding to live together, it is important to respect each other's opinion. But every time I have to say my point. The qualities that should be recognized only my priorities will not save the marriage. Both of you should respect each other's opinion. Both of you should give priority to yourself. No one should leave anyone under any circumstances.
Don't give in to temptations
As time passes, marriage becomes boring for many people. When this happens, many people take the wrong path. Getting secretly attracted to someone else without the partner's knowledge. Starting an extramarital affair. None of these are good for your marriage. Love should be commitment. No matter how many years pass, love should grow, not decrease.
Discuss openly
A lot of relationships break down due to lack of communication. So talk to each other. Correct the wrong feelings between the two immediately. Be straightforward about any complaints. Keep in mind that nothing is solved by getting angry and holding back. Talk openly about everything. Find solutions to problems with peace of mind. Only then can your relationship last for hundreds of years. If you know, there is no other relationship more beautiful than marriage.