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The first Karva Chauth after marriage is the most emotional, beautiful and memorable moment in the life of any newly married couple. The bride dressed in red, the deep mehendi of Piya’s name applied on her hands, the sargi plate filled with affection given by her mother-in-law and the anxious wait for the moon throughout the day – all these together make this day very romantic. In Indian culture, this festival is not limited to just praying for the long life of the husband, but it is also a wonderful means of deepening mutual dedication, trust and harmony between two hearts. When a girl observes this fast for the first time in her in-laws’ house, along with excitement, she also has a little nervousness about the rituals and living without food and water for the whole day. In such a situation, if husband and family plan this day together, then this simple fast can turn into the most beautiful memories for a lifetime.
Karva Chauth formally begins with the ritual of eating ‘Sargi’ early in the morning before sunrise (around 4 am). The importance of this ritual increases manifold on the first Karva Chauth. The mother-in-law gifts dry fruits, fruits, sweets, mathri and traditional suhaag items to her new daughter-in-law with love and blessings.
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Nutritious and balanced sargi: To observe Nirjala fast throughout the day, it is important that instead of fried things, things like dates, soaked almonds, apples, pomegranates, coconut water and milk-feni should be included in Sargi, so that energy remains in the body throughout the day and one does not feel thirsty.
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Husband should also take responsibility: On this special morning, it is the husband’s responsibility to wake up early along with his wife. Instead of being a mere spectator in this morning ritual, preparing dry fruits or giving lukewarm water to your wife gives the first feeling of closeness in your relationship.
In today’s modern era, the definition of relationship rests on equality and shared feelings. The best way to make the first Karva Chauth unforgettable is for the husband to observe this fast along with his wife. When both the spouses wish for each other’s long life, health and companionship and keep a waterless or fruitless fast throughout the day, then the feeling of hunger and thirst goes away completely. This step gives great mental strength to the wife and makes her realize that in this new relationship, sacrifice and dedication is not only from her side but is equal from both sides. Even if it is not possible to observe a complete Nirja fast due to work, spending time with your wife throughout the day and taking care of her comfort proves to be the biggest gift.
During the first fast after marriage, girls often start feeling headache, weakness or fatigue by noon. To make this time pleasant, some fun activities can be planned at home:
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Film or Web Series Marathon: Sitting at home, both can watch their favorite romantic movies or uncut wedding videos and albums. Reminiscing about the past moments of marriage automatically brings a smile on the face.
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Relaxation and Spa Session: The husband can give his wife a gentle head massage or help her relax her feet. Helping prepare for a heavy lehenga or jewelry is also a lovely gesture.
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Preparation of evening story: In the evening, Karva Mata is worshiped and the Vrat Katha is heard along with other women of the neighborhood or family. A little help from the husband in decorating the puja thali, karve and lamp makes the atmosphere festive.
After the completion of the evening puja, the most curious moment is the appearance of the moon in the night sky. Instead of keeping this moment simple, this moment can be made a little cinematic and dreamy:
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Terrace Decoration: If you are going to offer Arghya from the terrace or balcony of the house, then you can install light fairy lights, strings of fresh marigold flowers and aromatic candles there.
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Traditional Ritual Magic: When the new bride, wearing a red chunari, first sees the moon by placing a burning lamp in the sieve and then sees her spouse through the same sieve, that moment is beyond words. After offering Arghya, the husband should make his wife drink water with his own hands and break the fast by feeding her sweets.
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Pictures that will make you smile forever: Don’t forget to record beautiful photos and videos of this special moment. These pictures will always spread a happy glow on your face on your first wedding anniversary or in the years to come.
Do not take the trouble of preparing heavy food in the kitchen immediately after breaking the fast. First, the night of Karva Chauth should be completely stress free and full of peace:
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Favorite Satvik Dinner: Book a table for a quiet and beautiful candlelit dinner in a good restaurant in advance, or order light, digestible and delicious food of your wife’s choice at home. After being hungry all day, avoid eating heavy and oily food.
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Heart Touching Karva Chauth Gifts: A special gift in honor of the wife’s sacrifice and love completes the evening. It is not necessary that the gift be very expensive; A delicate gold or diamond ring, pendant, a watch of her choice, a hand written love letter or any personalized gift that directly touches the heart. The greatest gift is your promise in which you give the assurance of holding her hand at every turn of life.