Scolding children is not always appropriate, it can have a negative impact on their minds | News India

Parenting Tips: Every parent wants to raise their children well, for this they adopt a slightly strict attitude towards their children. Some rules and some limits are set to discipline him, which are also necessary for the child's good future. But when some parents force their children to follow rules etc. without any guidance and control, it starts having a negative effect on the children, which affects the relationship between parents and children. Due to which the behavior and personality of the children starts getting adversely affected and they start becoming undisciplined instead of being disciplined. So let's know how a strict attitude affects children.

Children become victims of anxiety due to the fear of making mistakes. Excessive rules and control of parents always put pressure on the child. Due to which they develop a fear of failure and they constantly live in the fear that they will be punished if they fail. Whereas, they do not know that some lessons can be learned even from failure. Strained relationship with parents Insisting on following rules without telling the difference between right and wrong and imposing strict rules to remain disciplined creates a stressful situation between the child and the parents.

Development of aggressive and rebellious nature
A child who suffers from an environment with a strict 'you have to get it right' attitude becomes so aggressive every time he rebels. In such a situation, parents have to struggle to empathise with the child. But this has the opposite effect on the child wherein the child ends up doing something that you would not even expect.

Problem-solving and comprehension skills are affected
Children living in a strict environment do not develop a sense of creativity because they do not have the will to do whatever they do, they work under pressure. Due to which their problem solving and understanding ability gets affected.

of low self-esteem
Children raised in rigidity constantly feel that whatever they do is inferior or worse. This leads to feelings of frustration and then low self-esteem.