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role of parents
A mother's role in creating such an environment can prove to be the biggest because a daughter spends more time with her mother. Father has to go out for business or job but children learn equally from their parents. Our habits affect the children. The most important thing is that the mother herself becomes the bearer of good qualities, only then the daughter gets good education. Can get. Therefore, parents should be conscious from the beginning about making time for their children, especially daughters.
It is said that 'Wadis sajaye hain nibhaan sir' means once a habit is formed, it can never be left. Therefore, it is the primary duty of the parents to make their daughter equipped with good qualities from the very beginning. To fulfill this, the parents should work hard from the beginning. It is said that
It is known that in order to make the child a bearer of good qualities, he should be stopped from bad habits right from the beginning, but this work should always be done with love instead of anger. By doing this you will be successful in winning your daughter's heart.
need for insight
Every girl needs to look within herself about her future because the future will test her at every step. If your friend or someone else scolds you for your habit, instead of getting angry, react to the scolding, it will be good for you. You need to pay attention to your behavior, speech, eating habits, and sitting habits, so that there is no scope for any kind of restriction or interference on you in your in-laws' house. ,
kitchen staff while studying
teach also
Pay attention to girls who hunch over the sofa or band when sitting, sitting with their feet on the table in front of the sofa. if you have it
If the habits continue in the in-laws' house then the in-laws will call them foolish or ignorant. I would say the same for parents, if their daughter is finding any objectionable habit, then keep explaining it to her at a young age, do not think that she will give up this habit when she grows up. This thinking may also be wrong. On the other hand, girls should not be angry with the restrictions imposed by their parents. It is the biggest duty of the parents to give a good life to their child.
Kitchen work should also be taught
Let us also mention here that the mother taught her daughter to cook while she was studying, because many mothers do not teach her to cook thinking that if she is free, she will spend the whole day studying, keep learning slowly! So this is a big mistake of the mother. If their daughter remains ignorant about kitchen work then her in-laws will suffer a huge loss. Although wise mothers-in-law educate their daughters-in-law and teach them a little bit, but when your daughter is innocent, your mother-in-law will definitely say that her mother did not teach her how to cook. How will she arrange food and drink for the guests coming to her in-laws' house?
If your daughter spends more than her friends and wears flashy fashion, then teach her to be simple, it may be that her in-laws are against flashy fashion and illegal expenditure. the girl who is boss
She will be happy and will obey her parents, she will be obedient, she will go to her in-laws' house and live happily.
If she respects guests, she will be a good daughter-in-law to her father-in-law's family. He will continue to be praised. Therefore, to look good in the in-laws house and get love from the in-laws, daughters should become bearers of good habits. While this will bring family happiness to the daughter, these things will also impact her children and will promote the customs and traditions of the joint family. Today, there is a great need to implement these things for the happiness of children.