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We know that there is a vast store of words in all the languages of the world. Words are precious and important. But their importance depends on the meaning. Words without meaning have no value, no importance. Without this they are useless and meaningless. Our speech is a collection of words. It is possible to solve big problems and problems by judicious use of speech as per requirement. Unable to talk everywhere and all the time. Sometimes being quiet or speaking less is beneficial to our success and our intelligence. It all depends on your creative and intelligent speech. Sometimes just two words can ruin a conversation.
People who talk too much seem good only for some time. Men who speak less are respected more. One of the main reasons behind men who talk more is that somewhere they are aware of their weak side. They doubt their peace of mind. To avoid exposing these weaknesses, they are eager to demonstrate their mental strength by speaking too much.
Many times we see that before saying anything the other person says, 'Let's talk a little.' This clearly means that no one is at all interested in listening to what you have to say. They are just giving you the opportunity to speak to quench your thirst for speech.
To understand any person in the world, it is not necessary to speak to him, it is necessary to listen to him. As much as laughing is good for your health, talking too much is harmful for your health. Make a habit of remaining silent as much as possible. This world considers quiet and silent people as wise and intelligent. It is better to stumble with the feet than to stumble with the tongue. People who speak less, the value of their words is so high that we are unable to understand it. Such people never need to say 'sorry'.
Talking too much is the worst of all social evils. If you have this guilt in your mind then even your closest friend will not tell you about it, rather he will ignore you. Another benefit of listening calmly is that just by listening to what the other person is saying, we understand what the other person is thinking and what he wants to do. Only if you pay attention to what the other person is saying will you be able to force them to listen to you.
People always hate the guy who puts his brain in top gear without turning on his brain's engine. Most people are in a hurry to speak. No one likes to listen but the law of nature is that we listen twice and speak half. The reason is clear – we have one tongue and two ears. It has been observed that no one likes to listen to people who like to talk too much. The world is eager to listen to those who know how to remain calm.
It is not necessary that people speak to mean what they say. Most people talk just to talk. He is busy proving himself through his speech. He believes that everything should be shown to others by speaking without seeing. Many people talk as much as possible in an attempt to make false incidents seem true and attractive with their words. Silence is beneficial in every situation. We can generate many times more thoughts in our mind than we can express our thoughts verbally. In most meetings, people listen less to the speaker and watch more. A wise man says one word and hears two words. A person with an open heart is important only when he also has open ears. Wisdom lies not in why we speak but in what we say.