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In relationships, it is important not only to have attraction but also to have love. But ignoring this love creates problems. When you start demanding love from your lover, love starts decreasing. Then you say, I should not have got into this relationship. Then the struggle to get out of that relationship and other problems begins. After getting out of one relationship, you move into another relationship but then the same story is repeated.
Love is very important in any relationship. In love you accept the subordination of your loved one whereas in attraction this does not happen. This is the difference between love and attraction. Although attraction is the first step, you can't stop at the first step. You also have to climb the next plant. That ladder is love. Peace is also necessary to strengthen relationships. Instead of getting angry at the behavior of others, remain calm. Don't just look at a person from the outside. If someone is angry or a little angry, we hold him responsible for his behavior but if we look at it in a broader perspective, many other aspects will also come to the fore. There is some reason behind that person's anger. If this reflects on the relationship, then expand the scope of your perception. Do not blame the person for any incident but accept it calmly and look at the incident from a broader perspective. If the approach is peaceful, the relationships are also peaceful.
If you are doing everything in your relationship and not letting the other person do anything in return, you are lowering his/her self-esteem. Love happens when there is reciprocity and this can only happen when you give the other person a chance to do something for you too. It requires a little cleverness and does not make the other person feel small.