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What I mean to say is that everyone has both the qualities. It just depends on our perspective because if it were not so, then everyone would look beautiful and good to everyone or everyone would look bad to others.
The difference is in our thoughts. Some are ready to give their lives for us and some are ready to take our lives. A very beautiful example has been explained in Punjabi poetry that… Kita Swal Mian Majnu, Teri Laila To Rang Di Kali A. Mian Majnu replied that she will not make eye contact with you.
So we have to admit that there is a difference when someone becomes different from others by making his quality his hobby. But it is not everyone's cup of tea to digest this difference. Rather, people make him bad in front of others by presenting his qualities as virtues in jealousy and hatred. This phenomenon continues until the inner beauty of that good person is lost and he joins the category of bad people.
This process is constantly observed in homes, families, society and even in educational institutions where the process of understanding and explaining to others goes on. Sometimes it happens that the handwriting of one of your colleagues is beautiful. But when the same handwriting is praised by a senior of that organization or a higher authority from outside, it becomes unbearable for a person of jealous nature. He starts finding holes in it.
Sometimes one of you may be a good speaker, a good singer or even a good sportsperson. It is better to belittle him rather than encourage him.
The need is that if we have got human dignity then we should also appreciate the work done by someone. If any quality of the person next to us disturbs our mind then let us try to adopt it which will give peace to our mind. Time will not be wasted in speaking ill of others all the time. Remember, the words spoken by you make a lasting impact on someone's mind. He may forget your face with time but never your words.
Someone has rightly said that 'wounds of words do not heal, swords do.' Many people are easily influenced by the words of others. The critic takes over your mind. Then you think or do what the concerned person wants, even if he is working under the policy of 'divide and rule' but your own understanding stops working. You do not hesitate to abuse others even if they say the same thing.
Because of this, good relationships are never formed. Your companions do not stay forever. You keep moving from one place to another according to your work. Therefore, it is very important that words are chosen very carefully. Bad words spoken by you lower someone's morale, due to which bitterness towards the other person is filled in your mind forever. Many weak-hearted people are forced to become bad by listening to others and sometimes even become mentally ill. Although it is said that whatever is in one vessel, it changes in another vessel.
We should not narrow our thinking so much that we stop seeing the good qualities or deeds of others. If a colleague of ours is going in the wrong direction, do not whistle at him. Do not dismiss him by just ignoring him. If we do this, then what right do we have to call ourselves good? One who propagates evil is worse than the one who does evil.
The poem “Farida Bure Da Bhala Kari Gusa Mani Na Hadai” by the original Punjabi poet Baba Farid ji guides us. Dehi Rogu Na Lagai Pla Sabu Kichchu Pai.
People get tired of hearing gossip and slander from him all the time. Those who slander all the time die socially. It is also a duty not to hurt anyone. According to the poet Abu Bin Adam, 'God loves those who love his creation.' Let us be really good, not pretend to be good all the time. No use of envelopes. Let us love ourselves, but also take care of the feelings of others. Otherwise what is the use of being educated? If our behavior is good it is a beautiful feeling for others. Well, let's go out laughing, gentlemen, let's get to work anyway….