58 mins ago
Health & Fitness
We want sweetness in relationships, but if we want to test the quality of relationships, then we have to look at our attitude and thoughts about how we connect with others. We have sweet relationships with those about whom we think good and there can be bitterness in relationships with those with whom our thinking is confused.
In relationships, we can come closer or we can go farther. It depends on our attitude and lifestyle. We can change our attitude by changing our thinking and attitude. We think negatively about someone when we are not comfortable with a particular aspect of their personality. But when we stop focusing on that sanskar, the relationship becomes comfortable even though that sanskar is still present in the person.
This means that our relationship depends on the quality of energy exchange between two souls. Every day we meet many people whose values do not match ours. If we continue with this thinking, we may be at odds with many people.
There are some people with whom we cannot connect because our nature does not match with them. We can see their traits but if we do not let negative thinking dominate then our relationship can be cordial.
This teaches us that resistance lies not in the behavior of the other person but in our own attitude and working style. Relationship means the contact of one soul with another soul. Whenever we oppose another person, it means that there is no connection between the two souls. We are moving away from our original qualities and abilities. We fight with others because something happened between us in the past or something is happening nowadays or we are worried about the future.