Solutions and suggestions for every obstacle, problem that occurs in our life are given in Chanakya Niti. Here we get moral education related to everything from marriage to whatever role it plays in Chanakya's policy.
It is said that to achieve success in life it is best to follow Chanakya Niti. He not only had knowledge of politics, diplomacy and economics but he also explained what it takes to make life the happiest.
Everyone wants that their married life should be happy and there should be no problems. But this happens very rarely. In marriage, quarrels, grudges and quarrels keep happening due to some reason or the other. This can sometimes be serious. In such a situation, maintaining a relationship becomes a challenge.
Therefore, Chanakya's policy is that if you do not tell some things to your wife during marriage, your relationship will be stronger. So let us know what Chanakya has said about which thoughts should be hidden from the wife to be happy in married life.
According to Chanakya, if you want to be happy in married life, then you should keep some things secret from your wife. You should never share these thoughts with your wife.
Do not disclose your income
According to Chanakya Niti, a husband should not share all the information about his earnings with his wife. Because if she knows how much her husband's income is, she will resort to unnecessary spending at home, which is a reference to Chanakya's policy. If she wants to tell you how much your income is, you should also tell her about your expenses.
hide your weakness
Chanakya's ethos says that a husband should always hide his weaknesses from his wife. Because sometimes there is a possibility of taking advantage of the husband's weakness. This may cause embarrassment at home and society. Or it may create chaos and resentment in the family, which is the essence of the policy.
Keep your donation confidential
If you donate or give any item, money or anything to anyone, it would be better not to discuss it with your wife. Because discussing this issue with your wife may make her suspicious of your actions and may reduce the value or importance of the item you have given her.
Not to mention your embarrassment
If any such incident happens due to which you have to be humiliated in public, in office or anywhere, then you should not discuss it with your wife. If this happens she will not tolerate it. This may lead to dispute. She cannot tolerate her husband being humiliated in front of anyone else. This may lead to self-consciousness.
Don't praise other women
According to Chanakya, a husband should not praise another woman in front of his wife. It is a matter of policy that once you praise it, it will create a little doubt as well as sarcasm in his mind. One thing about Chanakya Niti is that it is better to stay away from any discussion about another woman.