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Mumbai: Marriage is not a decision of just two people. After marriage, the fabric of relationships with people around and family also changes. Therefore, it is important to be transparent about some things while thinking about marriage. This helps in reducing many problems in future.
What questions should be asked?
Preparation –
Are you mentally preparing your partner for marriage before choosing him/her? Please ask.
Job/Career –
What are your partner's future plans in terms of job and career? Make this clear in the beginning. Ask at what point in your life career is important, a priority.
Like/Dislike –
Consider your partner's likes and dislikes. Talk about how much you can compromise. So you will get an idea of the change in the nature of these two.
Family planning
At what age and how many children? It is also beneficial to explain how you are thinking at the beginning. By this you will gradually become mentally prepared for it.
What is the priority of family?
Be clear from the beginning whether you will live together or apart after marriage. Often, if the girl and the family are unable to adjust to the sudden new arrival in the house, it can lead to strain in the relationship.