After marriage, boredom has come in sex life? Read the story of this woman and the strong advice of the expert

‘Sex’ – Even though these words do not speak openly in public, everyone knows its importance in personal life. Especially after marriage, it becomes an important part of depth and strengthening the relationship. When sexual satisfaction disappears from the relationship, love, belonging and emotional engagement also gradually starts to weaken.

Recently, a similar story has caught the attention of social media and readers, in which a woman has shared the story of her boring sex life in The Guardian’s relationship column.

There was disappointment with first marriage, the same situation in the second

This woman said that her first marriage ended because her husband was not physically active and no emotional or physical connection could be made with her. The woman hoped that the second marriage would prove to be better for her.

Initially everything was correct, but after some time the other husband also stopped taking initiative. The woman says that she has to try herself every time, but now disappointment has been taken instead of enthusiasm.

Husband’s habits increased distance

One day the woman caught her husband while watching porn movies. Although she had no problem with watching porn, but she started feeling that the husband is taking more interest in virtual fantasy instead of her.

Woman says:
“He does not even touch me, no one does romance, every time I have to try. Now I am tired.”

Relationship expert advice – talk openly

On the problem of this woman, the relationship expert said that:

1. The conversation is the solution – talk to your partner openly. Tell them what you like, what and what you are missing.

2. Sexual desires are solved by sharing, not by hiding. Maybe your partner does not understand what your needs are. Therefore it is most important to communicate.

3. There is no hyper to see porn, it has become a normal behavior in today’s time. There is no need to be afraid of it until it becomes addiction or bring distance in the relationship.

Have been bored with sex life? Follow these tips

1. Start sexual conversation – slowly, start talking without judgment.

2. Try new things – share fantasies, try new ways.

3. Keep romance alive – not just the bedroom, adopt small romantic gestures throughout the day.

4. Therapy or counseling – If you are unable to negotiate between the two, it can be helpful to meet the relationship therapist.