Lifestyle News: After marriage, we don't even realize how the years pass by in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. This marriage which was earlier of two people, now became of three people and then four people. Responsibilities increase. In the beginning, the husband and wife give a lot of time to each other. But, gradually we start realizing that now we are not talking to each other every day. (Husband-wife's marriage can break due to this reason)
There is a feeling that something is missing. One day suddenly a spark of argument erupts between them. It seems that something is missing in daily life (lifestyle). Even though they have been married for more than 10-12 years, they could not get along, so they separated. In such a situation, the divorce rate of many celebrity couples is increasing. In a research, the habits of 79 newly married couples have been studied.
Previous studies have shown that stressful life situations can affect couples' interactions, but this new research shows that people who experience stress are more likely to notice their partner's negative behavior. Researchers now believe that stress can influence partners' previously perceived actions.
These faults appear
Negative actions include breaking promises to the partner, showing anger or impatience, or criticizing the partner.
What the researchers say
“We found that individuals who experienced more stressful life events outside of their relationship, such as at work, were particularly likely to notice their partner's inconsistent behavior,” said study lead author Dr. Lisa Neff of the University of Texas (University of Texas).
How was the research done?
The research team asked 79 newlyweds to complete a short survey every night for 10 days, documenting their own and their partner's behavior.
“If stress causes individuals to focus on their partner's more inconsiderate behavior, this could influence the relationship by showing whether the harmful effects of stress may be stronger in couples who are no longer newly married,” Dr. Neff said.
'But the fact that we found these results in a sample of newly married couples shows how powerful the effects of stress can be.' The study was published in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science.