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The holy fast of Karva Chauth is very special for every married woman and on this day the fast is broken after doing sixteen adornments and looking at the moon. In the worship of this fast, Bayane is considered to be of great importance, which is usually given to the mother-in-law. But many times it happens that for the first time after marriage or due to some reasons the mother-in-law is not present on Karva Chauth, due to which women remain confused as to whom they should give the bayana. If you are also associated with this situation, then there is no need to worry because very beautiful and easy options have been suggested for this in the scriptures and traditions. By completing this ritual of Bayane properly, one gets the full results of the fast and sweetness remains in the relationships also.
In the absence of mother-in-law, to whom and how to give bayana
Even if your mother-in-law is not present with you, whether she lives in another city or is no longer in this world, the tradition of Karva Chauth does not stop. In such a situation, instead of your mother-in-law, you can give bayana to any other married woman who is older than you in age and relationship. You can hand over the bayana to your aunt-in-law, aunt-in-law, elder sister-in-law or even your mother. If none of these are available in the family, you can give bayana to a neighbor or an elderly lady close to the family with respect. The main thing is that you should gift the suhaag items, fruits and sweets to a worthy bride with reverence and respect, so that you can get the full results of your puja.
What things should be kept in mind while giving bayana?
On the day of Karva Chauth, when you take out the bayna, all the necessary things for the wedding like bangles, Mahavar, vermilion, bindi, clothes and Dakshina or fruits according to your devotion are kept in it. When you are giving bayana to another woman, you must seek her blessings by touching her feet because it is a symbol of respect for elders. The left plate is presented to someone only after it is completely decorated and kept in it. At many places, food items like Suhali or Mathri are also kept in the bayna, which are considered very auspicious. By keeping all these small things in mind, you can easily follow this important rule of Karva Chauth without any problem and wish for the long life of your husband.