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News India Live, Digital Desk: In the world we live in, people’s job is to speak. Especially if you are a celebrity, people judge you at every step. What are you wearing, how are you looking, what kind of movies are you doing, people’s opinion on everything is available for free. beautiful bollywood actress Chitrangda Singh are also not untouched by this. But recently the manner in which he has talked about dealing with criticism is a big lesson for all of us.
Chitrangada, who is known for her excellent acting and grace, has made it clear that the steering of her life is in her hands and not in the hands of the world.
“I don’t give anyone the right to control me.”
Chitrangada said a very important thing. He says that it is good to listen to criticism, but it is foolish to let it dominate you. She said, “I definitely listen, but I don’t like to feel ‘dictated’. No one can tell me what I should and shouldn’t do.”
To put it in simple words – take everyone’s advice, but always keep the decision your own.
Chitrangada’s ‘filter’ formula
Often we get hurt by small criticisms and start doubting ourselves. Chitrangada told that she keeps a “filter” in her mind.
She explained that she happily accepts the criticism that comes to improve her work (Constructive Criticism). But those things which are meant only for humiliating or unnecessary trolling, she listens to them from one ear and lets them out from the other. She knows when to show seriousness and when to ignore things.
What can we all learn from this?
This thinking of Chitrangada is very important not only for Bollywood stars but also for the common people. Whether you work in office or at home, there is definitely someone who interrupts you.
Chitrangada teaches us that:
- trust in yourself: No one knows your shortcomings and strengths better than you.
- Mental peace is important: Don’t disturb your peace by taking people’s words to heart.
- Learn to say no: If you don’t like an opinion, don’t feel bad about rejecting it.
Even today, Chitrangada Singh is working in the industry on her own terms and her outspokenness makes her different from the rest. So next time someone says something about you, turn on the Chitrangada ‘filter’!