Parenting Tips: Lack of self-confidence often prevents children from expressing their views in front of everyone. So should his talent be suppressed? Psychologist and parenting coach Dr. Mona Gujral informed parents about understanding children with low self-confidence and teaching them social skills.
Find the root of the problem
Self-confidence is the foundation upon which a person learns to respect himself and his abilities. Children with low self-confidence are often self-critical, afraid of failure, and shy away from challenges. Fear of failure and the habit of not thinking or doing anything without the consent of others are symptoms of lack of self-confidence. Criticizing themselves can affect their mental health, while fear of failure can stop them from doing anything. By recognizing these signs, parents can help improve a child's low self-esteem and boost self-confidence.
These techniques will be useful
To develop self-confidence in children, parents should encourage problem solving, praise their efforts, and set realistic goals. Start with small steps and allow them to make decisions, which will increase their confidence in their decisions. Recognize their hard work and praise their successes. Break big tasks into smaller steps so they can feel successful in achieving smaller goals. These steps help build self-confidence and encourage a growth mindset in children.
Create a positive atmosphere at home
The home environment has a deep impact on children's confidence and self-esteem. Psychologists emphasize that it is important to create a safe space where children can express their opinions without fear and feel comfortable taking risks. This includes unconditional love, open communication, and encouragement to take risks in a safe environment. Children should be encouraged to express their feelings openly and ask for help when they encounter difficulties. Encouraging kids to try new things and take on challenges creates a more positive environment at home!
Keep these things in mind
- Do not praise the child so much that he becomes overconfident.
- Do not give the child such an environment where he needs the consent of others for every decision.
- Make the child practice facing failure to develop a good personality.
- Never compare children with any other child.
- Don't just celebrate big successes, celebrate small progress too