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Relationship Tips: There is a belief in society that a wife should obey everything her husband says. But is this really true? There is no way! Today we are going to tell you about some such issues where every wife should put her opinion first and refuse to obey her husband. Being a wife does not mean that you have to give up your identity and independence. The dream of a healthy and happy married life is realized only when both people understand each other so that the relationship does not become a burden on anyone. Let's know 5 things that every wife should refuse to obey, whether the husband agrees or not.
Giving up your desires and dreams
Everyone has their own dreams and goals. Marriage does not mean setting those dreams on fire. If your partner understands you, he will consider your every wish as his own and will try his best to fulfill it, but if the husband does not respect your wishes and someone puts pressure on you to give up your dreams, then you should refuse.
Insults and abuse
No one gets married to suffer insults or hear insults. If your husband disrespects you or misbehaves with you, you should not hesitate to raise your voice, no matter what society or family thinks.
Frequent fights with husband
If you feel insecure even with your husband, then the bitter truth is that you need to reconsider this marriage. If you think that these troubles and fights will reduce or improve with time, then believe me there is no guarantee of this. In such a situation, your husband's nature ruins the childhood of your children and leaves deep scars on their innocent minds forever. In such a situation, you also need to raise your voice against it.
Harm to the family
If your husband is taking a decision that may be problematic for you or your family, to prevent this loss you should express your opposition instead of agreeing with him and avoid any such thing.
Struggle over financial independence
Everyone has the right to be financially independent, but you still need to resist if your husband tries to snatch it away. Remember that no one has control over your or your husband's income, so if you are insulted daily in the name of job or spending money or blamed for every little thing, you need to refuse it.