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Parenting Tips : Raising young children is not easy. It has become even more difficult to raise children of yesterday and above. Parents are very cautious to ensure that their daughters are cultured, they do not make any mistakes. You know that we are the role models of children. They are constantly watching us and listening to us. That is why we have seen many times that he has started talking or acting like you. Therefore, one thing parents should always remember is never to say certain things in front of children. Unknowingly your words affect the children. Child psychologist and adolescent parenting expert Angela Karanja has some tips for parents.
Husband and wife should not speak ill of each other
Never speak ill of each other or other family members in front of children. If we keep doing these things with children at home, it affects their minds. Children listen to whichever member we talk about during an angry fight. As a result, the child develops hatred towards that member. It is a serious matter for children to develop hatred towards one of their parents. So do not speak ill, criticize and insult anyone in front of children.
fear of responsibilities
Today is the era of competition. Inflation is increasing day by day. Both parents also work. In such a situation, do not talk about household responsibilities, money and illness in front of children. If we constantly talk about money in front of children, the result is that children start fearing the responsibility of money.
Do not compare children with others
Never compare children with others. Always remember that every child is different. So if you keep comparing a child with another boy, he may develop hatred towards that boy. Also, your child's self-confidence is broken and he is constantly under pressure.
Give children a chance to express their feelings
Never feel sad for children. Also, never tell children that it was not that bad. If your child is sad for some reason, do not ask him to smile. This affects their mind. By doing this, children never express their sadness. So they show that they are always happy in front of others. This affects their mental health. So sometimes it is okay to say this to children, sometimes it is not okay.
I made a mistake giving birth to you
Never tell your children that you made a mistake by giving birth to them, you should not have been born. No matter how angry you are, do not say such words to children even by mistake. Because no matter how old the children are, they cannot tolerate this punishment from their parents. This sentence hurts the children and hurts their self-esteem. Later on, they start feeling that no one likes them.