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Every child is loved by his/her parents But this does not mean that in the process of pampering our children we should forget that mental development of the child is also important. Many times parents complain that their child is becoming overly dependent. If you pay attention, you will find that your own mistakes are responsible for this. If you want to make your children self-reliant, you will have to avoid some mistakes.
1. Always doing bad things
Many parents criticize their children too much, this reduces children's self-esteem and confidence and they are afraid to take any decision. If we encourage them, they will be able to do their work themselves.
2. Always helping
Children should be taught skills early in life so that they can do things on their own later, but if you always do their work with a lot of pampering, they will become too dependent on you. Therefore, it would be better if you change your parenting style.
3. Not giving responsibilities
If you want to make your children smart and self-reliant, then start giving them small responsibilities from an early age. Like taking water from the filter yourself, dressing yourself, etc. By doing this, they will get used to doing their work themselves.
4. Do not leave free
Sometimes parents control their children too much, due to which children are afraid to take their own decisions. If you do not leave them free, they will not do anything new. So give them a chance to make mistakes and make them capable of taking decisions.